As I did this, I found myself drawn to softly sing to the tree. Each branch was covered with the white scale right out to the tips of the new buds, in the notches of the branches, and back to the trunk. As I hummed and sang, I realized my frustration with the bugs and my overwhelming concern for the tree abated. It’s nearly impossible to stay angry when you are singing!
Starting with the lower branches, I slowly worked my way up the tree using a step-ladder to reach the higher branches. It took many visits over several weeks to get to all the branches. Sometimes I would spend at over an hour perched in the tree, squishing the stinky, staining scale with my gloves while monitoring my attitude towards the bugs. My allegiance was with the tree, my humming songs directed to its wellbeing while keeping my heart wide open to our growing intimacy. Over time, I felt the tree welcoming me as I approached, its resilience stronger with each visit. Some might have said that I should have left well enough alone, that the bugs had a right to live too, but I chose to support and protect the tree.
The gift of this experience was a profound intimacy with the beautiful magnolia, one I could never have achieved if I’d simply sprayed it with the malathion! I watched as the furry buds began to swell, promising blossoms next spring. While I felt the tree’s gratitude, my appreciation for its presence in the garden deepened. I will never take its beauty for granted again.